Adult sex chats with men over 50
And people reckless enough to abuse opiates, cocaine, and methamphetamine are often sexually reckless as well.
Of course, new friends might lie about their STI risk.
After 50, men’s erections become iffy, and the drugs are less effective than advertised.
In older women, menopausal changes—vaginal dryness and atrophy—often make intercourse uncomfortable or impossible even with lubricant.
If she had a history of herpes, I’d ask about her last eruption.
I’d declare my history with illicit drugs and probe hers.
The vast majority of heterosexuals infected with HIV have a history of IV drug use.
And even without condoms, HIV is one of the less transmissible STIs.
So I’d like to respond rationally and tell an HIV-positive prospective lover that if I’d be fine making love—if we used condoms religiously. So I think I’d express openness to a sexual relationship, but postpone sex for a while, until I’d calmed down about her being HIV-positive. But needless to say, the cream increases to the top level.