Dating the same guy twice
He has it together, so you can focus on keeping yourself together instead of being the only true adult in the relationship.
In this way, you are allowing someone to take you for granted.
He can be a good person to lean on and go to for advice.
Now that men tend to extend their adolescence through their 30s, avoiding having children or marrying until later, Mar points out, an older man can be a relief.
A man who is twice your age is likely not only to be established in his career and financially stable but also to have a set of values that includes more than his professional ambitions.
Because of this, he’ll probably cheer you on while you focus on your own ambitions, writes Simcha.