Relationshipsolder women dating younger men
He has since admitted that he has a problem and broke down in tears saying that he is so torn inside and feels that he has a “Bad” self and a “good” self – but doesn’t know what the problem is and has agreed very willingly to seek treatment and help right away. I have attached that document, if you would like to see it. Every bone in my body is telling me to divorce and never look back.
I am self-sustainable, still young (turning 27 in February). He isvery kind and funny, and smart and successful, and I believe him when he says that he wants treatment and that this marriage is the most important thing in his life.
I had found HUNDREDS of emails from complete strangers on Craiglist – ALL SEXUAL in nature and that he had even been sending his picture to some women (just his picture of himself, not his genitals).
I continued to look at the emails – to see how long he had been doing this and found that it went back to when we first started dating.
For the next week (or even longer if I feel it is appropriate), we will live in separate living rooms.
However, if you feel the urge to feel a connection or to talk about how you are feeling, DO NOT SIT BY YOURSELF AND SULK OR KEEP IT INSIDE.
Hello Jo Ann, I found your website a couple of days ago and am so glad I found it.
I just found out about my husband’s secret earlier this week.
The email was flirtatious and inappropriate, and I’m confident that had I never caught it, he would go right back to what he was doing with craigslist. I told him that he had a problem and he denied that he has a problem because he doesn’t do it very often.
YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO SET BOUNDARIES AND ABIDE BY THOSE BOUNDARIES.
COUNSELING: You have to accept right now that counseling may have to be a part of your life for a very long time, and by long time, I mean years.
He spoils me in every way and I love him very much. Then earlier this week I was on the computer again and his work email was up. 99.9% was work, but there was 3 email exchanges that he had had with a brief girlfriend back in the states that I opened – he had just written them day before. She had originally contacted him, asking him how he was.
He started to bring up history – most shockingly, he told her that HE WAS NOT MARRIED, but he “lived with a girl”.